“This book is a brilliantly written masterpiece on childhood abuse with a stimulating, informative, and practical approach that provides a framework for recovery and hope. Dr. Lemoncelli has unlocked the complex problems associated with childhood abuse and provided a recipe for lasting change.”
—Carmen F. Ambrosino, CEO Wyoming Valley Alcohol and Drug Services, Inc. Certified Addiction Counselor Diplomate
Author, Saturdays, Dandelions, and Roots; Stories of Inspiration, Hope, and Recovery From Addiction, and The New Student Handbook on Drug and Alcohol Abuse
“Using the metaphor of a parasite to describe the internal harm caused by abuse, Dr. John Lemoncelli guides survivors to healthier, happier, and more productive lives. He provides hope, compassion and understanding, and offers concrete steps for recovery, yet sets realistic expectations (even if you win the war, you may lose some battles). He recognizes the pain of survivors, yet confronts self-defeating behaviors. Hundreds of survivors of childhood abuse have been helped by Dr. Lemoncelli as a counselor, and many more will be helped through this engaging book.”
—Samuel Knapp, EdD, ABPP, Director of Professional Affairs, Pennsylvania Psychological Association and Co-author of Practical Ethics for Psychologists
“Dr. Lemoncelli offers an approach that truly considers the whole person—heart, mind, and soul, offering great hope of healing for those who have experienced the worst in life. He achieves a balance of skill, insight, and compassion, and this book validates the reality of suffering, while bringing hope and empowerment. Lemoncelli recognizes and addresses the fragmentation of self that is often overlooked or misunderstood, without which recovery would not be possible. His unique approach can provide the traction needed to move from the bondage of pain, shame, and perfectionism, to a new love of self and others.”
—Joseph T. Verga, PhD, Licensed Psychologist, Health Services Provider